I'll forever be grateful to my friend at the time - The very first independent companion I had ever met. When I called her up and explained my qualms with working as part of my current agency, she immediately set up a meeting for me to visit the private condo she rented from other providers. I got ready on the day of our rendez-vous, and took the subway over to the downtown pad. In front of the building's front door, I looked up at the top of the skyscraper. I loved it already... The door of the unit opened to reveal my friend as well as a gorgeous view of Mont-Royal. The city shimmered below us, gleaming with possibilities. I sat down, readjusting my dress. The questions I had held on the top of my tongue rolled out of my mouth like an avalanche. I was curious about everything. I wanted to know how to ensure my personal safety, logistics of where to meet prospective guests, how to dress for an appointment... The list was endless! For the first hour we discussed getting starte...
If you ever want to see me search for words and put me ill at ease, ask for my menu. An itemized list of services or acts is so far from my vision of what I chose to offer as a companion that I don't know what to answer. A menu just doesn't seem to be a good standard to set - it strikes me as impersonal, and inadequate to establish if a meeting will be pleasant and fulfilling. If anything, I'm closer to a private chef than a crowded Yelp reviewed hot spot. If I prepare the same experience day in and day out, I'll get bored of it - and it risks becoming boring. So how do you make sure you'll be meeting up with someone who has the same tastes as you? Contrary to what many think, setting up a first encounter is simple enough, actually. Not very different of getting any other kind of first contact with someone - as long as politeness and respect are present, I'm personally very open to meeting with people of various backgrounds. My open mindedness do...
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