Amuses-Bouches, etc....
If you ever want to see me search for words and put me ill at ease, ask for my menu. An itemized list of services or acts is so far from my vision of what I chose to offer as a companion that I don't know what to answer. A menu just doesn't seem to be a good standard to set - it strikes me as impersonal, and inadequate to establish if a meeting will be pleasant and fulfilling. If anything, I'm closer to a private chef than a crowded Yelp reviewed hot spot. If I prepare the same experience day in and day out, I'll get bored of it - and it risks becoming boring. So how do you make sure you'll be meeting up with someone who has the same tastes as you? Contrary to what many think, setting up a first encounter is simple enough, actually. Not very different of getting any other kind of first contact with someone - as long as politeness and respect are present, I'm personally very open to meeting with people of various backgrounds. My open mindedness do...